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Gretta Hehre's avatar

This so speaks to me. The double standard of control, figuring out how to take up space, when to speak up or not...I’m glad to read your words even though there are no clear answers. Thank you ❤️

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Natalie Ward's avatar

So glad you decided to post this. Love all of it. Off to send it to a million other people pleasers who also get called controlling when what they really are doing is trying to keep the peace.

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